Why Does The LAW of ATTRACTION “NOT” work effectively to me? Anything wrong with it?
Have you ever asked why the “Law of Attraction” does not work well in some cases?
If you have read several books about personal finance and abundance (teaching how to become a rich guy), books about personal development/ growth, or self-help/encouragement, the term “Law of Attraction” is not new to you.
This law is one of the most fundamental Universe laws, which explains why everything around us works in harmony. Basically, this law helps people achieve what they want — through three basic steps: Believe, Trust and Receive. You could become a rich guy or a famous singer, whatever, by making a wish, tell it to the Universe, trust the Universe completely, and then, let the Universe arranges everything to you. Your dream will come true someday.
In the Internet and social media, there are a lot of successful real stories about people who achieved their life goals by following the “Law of Attraction”. It is definitely proved that the “Law of Attraction” is not just a theory. However, we also have unsuccessful stories. People made a wish every day but their dreams never come true. So, we need to find out the reason WHY the law is not effective in some cases and HOW to run it successfully?
My answer is:
It depends on the essential characteristics of people who make the wish.
“You not get served what you want. You get served what you deserve” — Luxi Vu
I can tell you a story about two friends. They were farmers and neighbors with the same background. They had their own gardens and both wanted to become rich and prestigious businessmen with fruitful-crops. They decided to adapt to the “Law of Attraction”. They run three steps seriously:
Mr. A, after making a wish, he completely trusted the Universe. Every day, he dreamed about success and money. He planed about his diners in luxury restaurants, holidays to famous beaches, and beautiful cruises. He worked but went awol because most of the time he spent daydreaming and Universe magics.
Mr. B, after making a wish, he also completely trusted the Universe. Every day, he dreamed about success and money. But he planed in detail for actions: which crops and farm animals should be raised to gain the most benefits, which channels should be used for selling and marketing, and so on. He dreamed but always spent his energy on real actions. He worked hard with optimism and kindness.
Logically, you can guess who is the successful person. Mr. A’s garden soon faced to failed crops and difficulties, while Mr. B’s business path is more advantageous and get better day by day. So, the “Law of Attraction” is only effective for Mr. B.
If you want the “Law of Attraction” work effectively with you in every case, you should:
1. Firstly, change yourself to be a better version
I bet that you have ever heard some typical wise words, such as:
“Birds of a feather flock together” or “You are what you believe you are”
It means people who vibrate at the same frequency, vibrate toward each other sooner or later. They call it, in science, sympathetic vibrations. These thoughts are perfect when we run the “Law of Attraction”. Because, actually, the more precise name for the “Law of Attraction” should be “The Principle of Vibration”. The Universe does these things which aligns you with people, things and situations that match the energy you put on.
To win the “Law of Attraction”, you have to raise your energy to a higher level (which means improve yourself and build up more good qualities: positive thinking, hard work, and kindness,…). The more you improve yourself and raise your vibration, the more you will see things that are beneficial to your well-being.
You need to become a magnet of “Optimism and kindness” to catch other “Optimism and kindness” as you are.
- With kindness and positiveness, you will have good business partners and friends who are willing to help you anytime you need them.
- With kindness and positiveness, you will solve every problem and troubles in positive ways. You do not spend much time and effort on stress and anxiety.
- With kindness and positiveness, God is always beside you.
2. Secondly, use your energy to focus on action plans, not on the results
The “Law of Attraction” comes to help us, not to ruin our lives. Remember!
It means the “Law of Attraction” only works when you establish a clear pathway to make your dream come true. “Steps by steps” is always necessary. The law just supports your way, not to create your way.
The “Law of Attraction” cannot know what you want because human nature is quite greedy. Your passion and greed never stop. Therefore, if you do not build a limit for yourself, the law cannot work. Remember, this law is only for people you can control themselves and love actions. Do not let your mind go too far for results, but use your all energy to build up a detailed action plan, as soon as possible.
3. Finally, start your first steps right now, instead of day-dreaming
If you want to win a lottery, at least you have to buy one.
If you want to have a beautiful and elegant girlfriend, at least you have to go on a date.
If you want to be a millionaire, at least you have to make a detailed action plan, or a business plan and start it smartly.
Be present. Be mindful!!!
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P/S: Sorry for any annoyance causing by my imperfection English. I am not a native speaker but trying to improve my English writing skills every day, therefore all comments are truly appreciated.
